The Sober Shaman

The Sober Shaman

The Program

Lesson 50: Bonds

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Randal Lyons
Mar 31, 2026
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By using the term, Bonds, we get to examine the repetitious, back-and-forth exchanges that you and your partner have from a logical and energetic viewpoint.

You don’t need to keep tip-toeing amongst the emotionally-charged landmines of triggers that are absolutely waiting for you in these conversations.

Instead, let’s begin with simple Yin Yang.

These “games of tennis” where you and your partner are hitting volleys of one triggered response after the other are the Dance of the Roles. Both of you are participating in this Dance and both of you are playing your assigned Role.

In this Lesson, we reveal these Roles to show exactly what’s happening. Now, you can consciously choose a different Dance - one moving to the beat of health, harmony and recovery.

Let’s begin…

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